Connecting with congregants—at sad and joyful moments, that’s what Caring Community volunteers do, all the while saying that they receive more than they give. The Caring Community secret: in reaching out to congregants, we live our Jewish values and feel the joy of being part of something bigger than ourselves.

Joining the Caring Community strengthened my connection to TBE. Like some of you, I came into TBE only on the High Holy Days and to commemorate yahrzeits. I felt drawn to return, but did not know how to connect. Volunteering with the Caring Community, allowed me to express my Judaism in a meaningful way, giving me a deeper understanding of what being Jewish asks of me and what it gives to me. Here is a glimpse into the experience.
The clergy noticed that Fran (pseudonym), a widow and TBE founding member in her mid-80’s, was no longer coming regularly to synagogue. Cantor Sufrin called Fran and suggested that a member of Lev Echad, TBE’s pastoral visiting group, give her a call. Proudly independent, Fran was skeptical, but as you know, it’s hard to say no to Jodi!

For five years, over many cups of coffee, Fran and I talked about what gave meaning to her life: love, family, belonging, loss, friendship, gratitude, disappointment, forgiveness, identity and God. And we shared much laughter.

When Fran became seriously ill, a Bikkur Cholim (visiting the sick) volunteer visited and brought a “TLC” bag and shawl made by TBE Caring Knitters. Fran’s daughter told the Bereavement volunteer who called her shortly after her mother’s death, that Fran requested to be buried wearing the shawl.
The TBE Caring Community is blessed with supportive clergy, compassionate volunteers and dedicated lay leaders. We share simple acts of loving kindness (gemilut chasadim) that make TBE a truly Caring Congregation. The Caring Community is a way each of us can respond “Hineini,” here I am.
Reach out, I would love to talk with you: Carolyn Lee Kohlman.