Last spring, I was honored to join the inaugural Circles of Connection—a new program for parents with school-aged children at Temple Beth Elohim. The goal was simple yet profound: to talk openly about being Jewish and, in the face of the unthinkable horrors of October 7th, how we communicate with our children, our friends, and our families.

I didn’t know much about the program at first, but it came highly recommended by Rabbi Saphire—and I make a point of saying yes to everything Rabbi Saphire suggests.

From the moment I arrived, I felt at home. I was greeted by our warm, thoughtful circle leaders, Polly Hirsh—an old friend I was thrilled to reconnect with—and the lovely and insightful Joey DuPont. We began with lighthearted “get to know you” exercises, but very quickly, deeper connections began to form. This strong, devoted group of women clearly shared my complicated feelings about what’s happening in Israel, and the challenges of finding the right words when talking with our families and friends.

As the weeks passed, our conversations evolved. Each meeting became a new exploration of what Judaism means to us, how it shapes our lives, and how we navigate our identities in a world where antisemitism is on the rise. We talked about our fears, our hopes, and our everyday lives—both inside and outside of TBE. In our circle, we could speak freely, without judgment or fear, and be met with compassion and understanding.

I feel deeply fortunate to be part of a group that uplifts women and amplifies our voices. Temple Beth Elohim has been my home since birth, but through Circles of Connection, I have never felt so deeply rooted in our community.

If you ever have the opportunity to join, I urge you to do so. You’ll leave each gathering feeling enlivened, emboldened, and supported—and you’ll gain not just a circle, but a family.